These 4 Signs Will Tell You It's Time to Break-up in a Relationship

When in a relationship and things seem not to be working out, you have to assess if it is time to let go. Here are some points to consider before making such important decision, according to News24.

1. Dealing with In-Laws

In-laws are all parties that have come with your spouse-all parties-that includes the parents. Most of the time we tend to overlook the influence that most parents carry with them when they interfere with the child’s marriage. When it all turns sour, they do not want to be in sight but point fingers. Beware of a spouse that runs to the parents in the first sign of trouble. Beware of the one that makes a decision-only after they have consulted the parent. You and your spouse need to come to an agreement when it comes to family members coming into your marriage and you should go about it equally.
 
Do not impose something that you would never consider imposing to your own unless it is under strenuous circumstances. Be open enough with your relatives on what they can or cannot do when it comes to you and your home. Do not duck under the bushes and say your spouse said. Say it is you who is also saying because you were there when it was being discussed.

2. Personal time with the spouse

The problem as to why most women are now avoiding marriage or part of it is that, once you are married, it is as if the guy forgets about you. It is as if, he has compartmentalized you and forgotten about you. It is a goal he has accomplished and now on to the next one. If that alone time is important to you, talk about it. If you two are lagging where either of you are concerned, it will eventually be a problem.

All couples need alone time. If you can no longer stand your spouse, then you two are in for it and trouble is awaiting for you at the next bend because it will eventually creep up
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3. What is acceptable or a boundary that should no longer be crossed by a spouse

This should in fact be discussed while the two of you are still dating or engaged not after marriage. Because now the other person will fell like you are being tyrannical. You should agree on late-nights, what you cannot tell other people about the spouse or marriage, what you do not want your marriage to end up like-just anything that will make either of you uncomfortable or feel alienated in the marriage.

4. Money, money, money

If you never discussed money, then the earlier the better because money always has and will always be a problem no matter how much you feel like you have resolved it. Talk about your bills, talk about whom you don’t feel comfortable giving money to and talk about spending habits.